The Gift That Returned Her Tomorrow

Who is this person whose blood is making me feel better? What do they like to do? Could I ever meet them to say thank you?

Those questions echoed in Elizabeth’s mind countless times during her fight for survival.

When she first felt sick on an April morning in 2021, Elizabeth, from Fairmont, Minnesota, assumed it was food poisoning—just nausea, fatigue, and stomach pain. But when the symptoms lingered, a coworker gently urged her to take it seriously: “Food poisoning doesn’t last that long.” Still unconvinced, Elizabeth stopped by the school nurse at Fairmont High School, where she works as a special education teacher. She expected a brief check-in and instructions to rest.

Instead, the nurse told her, firmly and without hesitation, to go to the emergency room immediately.

Initial tests and pain medication at the hospital offered some reassurance, but by Monday everything changed. A phone call instructed her to get to Rochester immediately. Within twenty-four hours, she was starting chemotherapy. The diagnosis: acute lymphoblastic leukemia.

Elizabeth receiving chemotherapy (Photo submitted)

Eight months of treatment began. Her first hospital stay stretched twenty-one days. She walked out on her daughter’s sixteenth birthday—on Mother’s Day—and in remission. The chemo had worked fast, wiping out the cancer cells, but it had also wiped out nearly all of her healthy blood cells.

In that first round alone, Elizabeth needed four to five blood transfusions, plus countless platelet transfusions. As treatment continued, the numbers climbed far beyond anything she ever imagined: more than 120 blood transfusions and nearly 200 platelet transfusions.

Elizabeth, pictured with her oldest daughter Tiffany, receiving a lifesaving blood transfusion—one of more than 120 blood transfusions and nearly 200 platelet transfusions that gave her the strength she needed to continue her chemotherapy treatments. (Photo submitted)

There were days when her blood counts sank so low she could barely stay awake. She remembers receiving a transfusion and, within thirty minutes, feeling her strength return. She tried to stay upbeat—even playful—asking the nurses, “So… is this one going to give me powers?” Humor became her shield against fear.

Because of her rare Rh-negative blood, she often needed specially typed platelets. She would be admitted for days at a time, waiting and hoping that these gifts from strangers—people she would never meet—would take.

She wondered constantly about them.

Who is this person whose blood is making me feel better? What do they like to do? Could I ever meet them to say thank you?

By December 2021, Elizabeth had completed her final chemo treatment. She stepped into survivorship the same way she had entered treatment—determined. This May marked four years since her first remission, and December marks four years cancer-free.

Elizabeth and her daughter Makenzie celebrate her final chemo session, with the same humor that became her shield against fear—proving that laughter really is the best medicine!
(Photo submitted)

Long before she became a patient, Elizabeth had been a donor herself. She started giving blood and plasma at sixteen, encouraged by her mother, who worked in a nursing home and often spoke about ordinary people quietly helping others simply because someone had to. As a high school athlete in the late ’90s, donation felt like just a good thing to do—never something she imagined she would one day depend on for her life.

So when the blood drive coordinator at Fairmont High School retired, Elizabeth didn’t hesitate. She stepped in to lead the program. “These donations saved my life,” she says.

She can’t donate anymore, but she volunteers with the Red Cross because she knows what’s at stake. Somewhere, right now, another parent, another teacher, another human being is lying in a hospital bed waiting for blood—blood that may determine whether they get to see another birthday, another Mother’s Day, another tomorrow.

Her four daughters now donate—or plan to. They watched their mother fight for her life. They saw how every transfusion lifted her back to herself. One of her daughters, an O-negative universal donor, once said, “If someone saved Mom with their blood, the least I can do is give mine to someone else.”

Elizabeth’s daughter Alyssa made her first blood donation in December 2025, keeping it light through the nerves and paying it forward for her mom. “I’m amazing because amazing people donate blood to help save lives. I guess that makes us superheroes!” (Photo submitted)

Elizabeth is proud—not just because her girls donate, but because they understand. “Awareness is learning,” she says. “You can’t expect people to do better if they don’t know.”

So she teaches, just as she does every day in her classroom. When she stands before students at Fairmont High—whether she’s explaining an assignment or sharing her story about blood donation—she knows not everyone will take the message to heart. But some will. And those few may one day help save a life.

She shares her story not to seek sympathy, but to spark action. “If telling my story encourages even one more person to donate, then it’s worth it,” she says.

The Lowry family at Disneyland – December 2021. (Photo submitted)

Elizabeth is alive today because someone donated—someone she will never meet, someone who didn’t know they were saving her. She is living proof of the impact a single donor can make. Now she leads student blood drives, raises awareness, and inspires a new generation of donors, determined to honor the strangers who once saved her life by paying that gift forward.

The Lowry family in Myrtle Beach – June 2025. (Photo submitted)

Your donation could mean the difference between life and loss—for a patient, a parent, a teacher, a mother or a friend. It only takes an hour. It can give someone another tomorrow.

The American Red Cross is facing a severe blood shortage as requests from hospitals exceed the available supply of blood. Donors of all blood types, especially those with types O, A negative and B negative blood and those giving platelets, are urged to give now to help people who rely on transfusions for medical care.

Schedule your donation today at RedCrossBlood.org or call 1-800-RED CROSS. Don’t wait. Someone’s life depends on it.

See the Need, Meet the Need

The Inspiring Story of June (Ahlfs) Qualy

Growing up, I was always very close to my grandmother, June (Ahlfs) Qualy. She taught me to read by the age of three embroider by the age of seven and the importance of helping those who need the most help by 12, at which time she encouraged me to take my first Red Cross class in babysitting. While most pre-teens spent their time at the mall or playing with makeup, I was busy learning the basics of survival skills and how to properly tie a makeshift sling in case of a broken arm. By 16 I was in Red Cross lifeguarding classes and became First Aid and CPR certified via a college class at 21. June was always a beacon of light in my life, modelling what a responsible, compassionate person in our society looks like.

It wasn’t until I joined the American Red Cross in 2022 that I started learning more about June’s time serving with the Red Cross in World War II. She had just graduated from St. Catherine University in 1945, where she was an active member of the League of Women Voters, and then entered the nursing service of the Red Cross. June was deployed to Hiroshima and Tokyo, Japan, where she witnessed firsthand the devastating aftermath of the war. Her experiences there shaped her perspective on human suffering and the power of compassion to heal.

Red Cosser June (Ahlfs) Qualy, 1946.

June served with the Red Cross until she decided to marry and start a family in 1949. However, her commitment to helping others didn’t end there. She went on to have a wonderfully impactful career at Saint Mary’s in Minneapolis as a chemical dependency counselor at their inpatient rehabilitation facility. June was known to be the toughest counselor on staff, often assigned the patients who were least likely to recover. Her approach was firm but compassionate, believing in the potential for change in even the most challenging cases.

“June always said, ‘see the need, meet the need’ and that keeps me going every day.” – Sarah Qualy, June’s granddaughter

Image of cover of book, "Saint Mary Blue" by Barry H. Longyear

June’s dedication and unique methods led to an alarming success rate despite the odds. Her work was so influential that former patient Barry B. Longyear wrote a book about her in the 1980s called “Saint Mary Blue.” This book not only chronicled June’s methods but also highlighted the lasting impact she had on countless lives.


When I think about June, I think about the tenacity of what it means to be a woman in times of crisis. Much like our Red Cross matriarch, Clara Barton, June embodied the spirit of humanitarianism that requires not only compassion and philanthropy but also courage and defiance. In this spirit, I’m reminded of my favorite Clara Barton quote: “I have an almost complete disregard of precedent, and faith in the possibility of something better. It irritates me to be told how things have always been done. I defy the tyranny of precedent. I go for anything new that might improve the past.”

While my Grandma June is no longer with us, having passed away at almost 90 in 2013, I know that I carry her light within. There’s a fire inside me that I learned from her, to step up for our community in times of tribulation. To not fear the emotions of disaster, but to use them to alchemize into action. June always said, “see the need, meet the need” and that keeps me going every day. Her legacy lives on through the countless lives she touched and through those of us who continue to serve in the spirit of the Red Cross.

By Sarah Qualy, proud Red Crosser, following in her grandmother’s footsteps

As we celebrate March as both Red Cross Month and Women’s History Month, honor June’s legacy by joining the American Red Cross in our mission to alleviate human suffering—whether it’s through volunteering, donating blood, or making a financial contribution, your support can make a difference in your community and beyond. Visit RedCross.org/MNDAKS to get involved.

My Blood Donation Story – The Power of Red

By Mary Patterson, Minnesota and Dakotas Region digital communications volunteer

When I first started high school, a banner in our cafeteria for the school’s fall blood drive caught my eye. I wasn’t old enough to donate, and I wasn’t yet part of the student groups organizing it. By my junior year, all that changed.

In the fall of 2021, I joined the Student Council and become a member of the National Honor Society. My math teacher, Ms. Arnold, was the advisor for both of these groups. On the agenda of the first student council meeting was the topic of the fall blood drive. Ms. Arnold shared her personal story about donating blood in memory of her father, who had been a lifelong blood donor after receiving a blood transfusion following a motorcycle accident.

I had volunteered in various ways before but never felt a spark or drive to a specific cause. However, I was eager to complete my service hours, and the blood drive sounded like a great way to get started.

Mary Patterson gives a thumbs up during a successful blood donation – December, 2024. (Photo submitted.)

Having turned 16 in 2020, I had to ask my parents’ permission to donate at the drive. Minnesota is one of 37 states to allow 16-year-old blood donors! With their blessing, I registered to donate and signed up to volunteer at the drive.

I woke up nervous the day of the drive. I had made sure to sleep well the night before and eat a good meal before heading to school. But what if the needle hurt a lot? What if I fainted? In the end, I felt completely well after my donation. We wrapped up the day with 71 donors and 217 lives saved!

“Besides the ‘good feels’ of being a teacher, this is one of the things I am most proud of – teaching the next generation to help people around them, even those they don’t know, is so important,” said Ms. Arnold. “Donating blood is something almost everyone can do so I encourage all my eligible students to do it. I know some students volunteer just so they can get out of class, but hopefully a habit is starting to form.”

I was eligible to donate again at the Spring 2022 blood drive, no longer requiring parental permission at age 17. This time, however, I ended up on a mat on the gym floor, dizzy and pale. A few weeks later, a letter from the Red Cross arrived in the mail explaining that I had an iron deficiency and was now ineligible to donate for one year. While this did explain the drastic difference in my donations, I was incredibly disappointed, as I had just been eligible to donate a few short months before. Not only that, what if this deficiency lasted so long I couldn’t donate again? Despite this, I knew how it had felt to give my time as well as my blood, so I was determined to remain involved in the school drives, taking volunteer shifts during my lunch hour at the sign-up table and helping donors at the drives feel at ease both during and after donating.

From my first two donations, I learned three valuable things: I had a health condition, but it was treatable, and, most importantly, I wouldn’t have known if I hadn’t tried to donate blood. I was committed to donating again: I adjusted my diet to include higher iron intake, got cleared by my physician, and fulfilled the one year waiting period, I signed up to donate again, and was successful! I was so relieved to know I was healthy enough to donate again, as I went into this donation attempt even more nervous than my first. Since regaining eligibility, I donate close to every 56 days as possible.

Miss Dakota County volunteers at the University of Minnesota Red Cross Club blood drive, lending her support to this important cause. (Photo submitted.)

In my first year of college, I got involved with the University of Minnesota Red Cross Club as a blood donor. In my second year, I got more involved by volunteering at four on campus drives in the fall semester. Then, in October 2024, at age 19, I ran for a local title to the Miss Minnesota Scholarship Program, through the Miss America Opportunity. As a contestant, I needed to create a Community Service Initiative to focus on during my candidacy and potential year of service. For me, it was a no-brainer: my passion for blood donation had only grown since I started. After seeing the critical need for blood in our nation, having learned from the representatives that spoke to my school and from Ms. Arnold, I was finally feeling that spark towards a cause. To run for Miss Dakota County, I created The Power of Red: Blood Donation and Blood Health Awareness.

The Power of Red aims to enhance donor accessibility as well as create awareness about the critical need for blood. This is accomplished through my social media campaign that features weekly blood drive locations, fun facts about donation and blood health, and provides resources to help individuals schedule and prepare for donation appointments. This platform shows the benefits to both the donor and recipient: the urgent need for blood is combined with the knowledge that donors receive about their health. My personal experience showed me that blood donation has benefits beyond saving others: it just may help you save yourself.

Miss Dakota County, Mary Patterson, shares exciting news on Instagram: she’s now a Red Cross digital volunteer! Mary is using her platform to raise awareness and educate her followers about the critical need for blood donations.

Today, at age 20, I am honored to share that I won the title of Miss Dakota County 2025 this past October. I’ve started 2025 by becoming an official American Red Cross volunteer. I am eager to take The Power of Red to the Miss Minnesota stage this summer and show this great state the impact we can make by rolling up a sleeve to give the gift of life! I will be continuing my work by keeping my social media campaign up to date, continuing my volunteering with the U of M Red Cross Club in addition to regular donation, and finally, hosting my first blood drive in early June.

I recently asked Ms. Arnold what she would say after seeing me go from a first-time blood donor to an advocate volunteering with the Red Cross, and raising awareness for this cause on a state level as a Miss Minnesota candidate. She replied, “Thank you! Any way to bring attention to this lifesaving opportunity is a great one!”

Blood donation appointments can be scheduled by downloading the free Red Cross Blood Donor App, visiting RedCrossBlood.org or calling 1-800-RED CROSS (1-800-733-2767).